RA Kartini, Our Feminist.

Assalamualaikum.. mmhh.. yesterday was the 21st April, we commemorated the birthday of one of indonesian feminists, she is orginally from Indonesia, Jepara, Middle Java. her name is Raden Ajeng Kartini, one of her struggles was written in a book, written by herself, entitled Habis Gelap Terbitlah Terang. having great number of willingnes and efforts, she had dissolved the ancient view of women in the past, at that time they spent their life to three things..
Kitchen, Well, and Bed.

but all the things have changed,nowadays women keep on catching up in order to similarize their position with the men..then, i just want to admit a reality that the women's success in various fileds is something common happened in our daily life now, not only in our country but also in abroad, let we count... how many women who have been decision makers in government institution or in company, or even higher than that, we have ever been led by a woman
president, right? it may be the results triggered by the feminists, including RA Kartini.

all their struggles, known as woman emancipation. in my opinion, woman emancipation is a figthing, figthing to do something and to be confessed of
their dignity and voices. based on KBBI (Kamus Besar Bahasa Indonesia), emancipation means the similarity among the rights on many aspects of life, including the rigth similarty among the men and the women.

but, hehehe.. frankly speaking, as far as i realized, the woman emancipation just goes partially, just tends to the favorable thing toward the women, we know that, even on behalf of woman emancipation, they are still hesitant to mend the roof, repair the broken television or just to fix the water pipeline. in short, they just want to be the same in terms of intelectuality and voices, not phsycally and behaviour.

i am afraid of this thing, have you ever imagined that, some women consider the woman emancipation as a mean of helping their egoism to keep standing in front and being admitted by many people. so they leave their nature, restriction
and function as a woman. if so, meaning that the woman emancipation has been misused to leave that lofty things, may be, all young kartinies nowadays, this our sisters, have to rethink by pondering and realizing the meaning of their
presence in the world.

well.. i don't agree if a woman come to the front as a leader, or president or a conqueror. because in my opinion, all that position can make a woman forget their basic nature as a mother, as a long-life friend for her husband, evenmore
if the thing they do expect is a leadership, actually indirectly they also can be a leader, you know that, if her husband is a leader, the woman can also come up as a leader, for example, being a leader The Dharma Wanita Group or sort of..
by playing a role as a supporter and proponent for their husband, they are giving their devotion by their own ways, simpe exampe: Conducting Blood Donation in their husband institution, Presenting Social Devotion the society. and i am really sure by diong these, they will remain realized about their obligation as a mother of their child, and a wife for their husband, so that their child will not say :"mom.. where are you?i miss you a lot.. why are you so busy all the time, when can you accompany my breakfast??"

hehehe.. far from that, i want to convey to you all that i had and will keep on honouring woman, because in their womb i was taken care of, and by all their sacrifices i was born and brougth up, mother i love you.. i know you are really in happy and sincere there..

Wassalamualaikum